We had let traditional roles set in, and suddenly, John was sidelined with a cancer diagnosis. Today, he’s healthy, but the chaos of those months taught us an essential lesson. The farm tasks he was the "primary doer" of—from equipment maintenance to daily feeding—became a scramble for me to reacquaint myself with. If you run a small farm, you must cross-train. Don't wait for a crisis to realize you don't know how to run the baler! Click through to see our full wake-up call